Passion

September 25 2020

Turn Your Dreams into Reality – FreedomSeries Interview with Barry Magliarditi

Larry Jacobson AFTER RETIREMENT, Captain's Blog, Passion, Purpose, Retirement Life-Style Planning

In this episode we discuss how I made my dream of sailing around the world come true, and the traits and disciplines needed to achieve great accomplishments in one’s own life.

Learn more from these takeaways:

the misconceptions and myths about retirement

the mindset of most content and happy retirees

how to create a retirement of passion and purpose

a striking similarity in sailing a yacht or running a business: the “comfortable” trap

Enjoy the interview! 🙂

Larry Jacobson is a Certified Dream Coach, Retirement, and Leadership Coach. He understands from his own experience what it takes to make your dreams come true. His self-guided video programs and personal coaching are available to you – Sample three FREE Modules of his “Lifestyle Planning Program” at www.BuoyTraining.com .

Larry is an avid sailor with over 50,000 blue water miles under his keel. He is author of the six-time award-winning memoir of his circumnavigation in the book, The Boy Behind the Gate. He lives in the San Francisco Bay Area and welcomes new friends and inquiries – Connect and Follow Him him on LinkedIn , FaceBook, or www.BuoyTraining.com .If you would like to explore being coached by Larry Jacobson, Click Here to contact him!

August 29 2020

The Greatness Machine LIVE – Larry J interviewed – Topic: Follow Your Dream – Live Your Purpose

Larry Jacobson New Beginning, Passion, Purpose, Reinvent Your Retirement

Check my interview by the fabulous, funny, and smart Darius Mirshahzadeh on the Greatness Machine Live Series.

During the interview we discuss How to Follow Your Dreams, Core Values, and I share my own personal anchors that guide my life. We get down to the nitty-gritty of how to find your passion and live a full life, and you’ll take away inspiration and encouragement to make your own dreams come true.

Here are a few more topics we covered:

Letting go of the idea that your work is your identity

Coaching being a mirror. You get out what you put in.

How is core values changed and how they shape his decisions

Enjoy the interview! 🙂

May 25 2020

Why Do I Work So Much?

Larry Jacobson Passion, Purpose, Reinvent Your Retirement

Is this passion or obsession – sometimes I wonder….

I’m at a point in my life where I should be slowing down, taking it easy, sipping margaritas, watching sunsets, and living my dream life. Quick rewind – I’ve already done that (sailing around the world for 6 years).

I work a lot. Every day, seven days a week, the first thing I do is go to my desk, sit down, and either write, answer emails, study in a class, or do something work/office related. The other day, I sat down to ask why? Sure, I would like the income, but since the event industry has dried up like the Sahara Desert, my public speaking work isn’t producing much income. So why continue? Why not just goof around?

My quest for achievement for myself and others is sometimes annoying, but I can’t seem to help it. I like to keep busy and find myself constantly working.

Why?

My parents clearly have something to do with this. My father was an inventor and spent long extra hours in his factory inventing all kinds of things including the method and machine for installing the hooks in your draperies.

My mother was a nurse and nutritionist. I remember about a month before she passed away, I asked what she was writing. It was a vitamin regimen for a friend of hers and she was handwriting it, having already spent days on the project.

“Why are you taking the time to do that,” I asked? Her answer was so simple. “Because I have the knowledge to help my friend.” It gave my mother purpose and fulfillment to continue helping others.

And so it goes for me. I like helping others making their dreams come true. I have also discovered my contentment comes from achievement. That makes me a coach very interested in my clients achieving success. If I’m not working towards a goal of achieving something, I feel lost in a sea of endless possibilities. I guess because I like what I do, it doesn’t seem like work.

How is it for you?

July 2 2018

The Beauty and Burden of Independence

Larry Jacobson New Beginning, Passion

What does Independence Day mean to you? On a national scale it represents the birth of a nation. However, after 236 years, it’s difficult to relate to desiring independence from the British. After all, they are now our best friends and ally, and none of us remember ever being enemies with the Brits. I mean really, who could be angry with the Queen? And where would we be without tea and scones, gin and tonic, or the original Mini Cooper? Not to mention their keen sense of humor and dry wit.

Perhaps Independence Day has a more personal meaning to you. From whom or what have you gained your independence? Maybe you moved on from a meaningless job, an unkind boss, or a bad relationship. Or maybe you’re working on it. Give yourself a pat on the back for earning even the smallest bit of independence, and continue striving to gain more self-determination while retaining your individuality.

Your independence is not free from burden. It comes with responsibilities and accountability. By definition it means not blaming others for decisions you make, and actions you take. Whether you enjoy independence in your personal or business life, the course you choose to steer defines who you are.

And yes, I’m also grateful for the country’s independence. I don’t really like tea, and scones need too much butter and jam to be palatable. Besides, I like burgers and ice cream.

I raise my glass and join you in celebrating whatever level of independence you have achieved. Here’s to you being YOU.

Fair winds,
Larry

P.S. What form of independence are you grateful to have in your life?

Larry Jacobson
Your Retirement Life-Style Design Coach

Larry Jacobson is America’s #1 trusted authority on non-fiscal retirement life-style planning. He is the creator of the Award-Winning “Sail Into Retirement” life-style design program; developed based on his own Retirement Transformation Experience. He retired early and sailed around the world… in 6 years. Larry is a two-time TEDx speaker, and a regular speaker at Retirement and Life-Style Planning events. Larry believes only in teaching what he knows, and he loves helping his clients turn their passion into their dream retirement. If you’d like to explore inviting Larry to speak at your organization’s next event; or if you’d like to be coached by Larry, Click HERE to contact him!

If you haven’t downloaded Larry’s new Check-List, The Top 5 Retirement Life-Style Planning Secrets, you can do so Here!

If you have any questions about Retirement Life-Style Planning, you can send Larry Jacobson a message – Click HERE!

February 19 2018

The Rainbow Circumnavigation: Stories from the First Openly Gay Man to Sail Around the World

Larry Jacobson AFTER RETIREMENT, Goal Setting, New Beginning, Passion, Purpose, Reinvent Your Retirement

* from The Rainbow Circumnavigation: Stories from the First Openly Gay Man to Sail Around the World held on January 25, 2018

Listen in to six-time award-winning author, two-time TEDx speaker, executive and life planning coach Larry Jacobson, as he brings you on board the sailing vessel Julia for the ride of your life. With personal insight, wisdom and humor, Jacobson will share funny, scary and romantic stories from his six-year odyssey.

He will answer questions such as: How were he and his openly gay crew received? Were there problems flying the rainbow flag all the way around the world? How did Jacobson deal with his fears? What scared him the most: pirates, storms, tsunamis or Texans?

You’ll learn more about Jacobson’s method for managing fear, which he developed while at sea. Jacobson will also be signing his award-winning memoir, an Amazon No. 1 best seller, The Boy Behind the Gate.

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The PowerPoint Larry Used in His Presentation

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Invite Larry to share his story with your group; or invite him to present one of his workshops on Overcoming Fear or one of his other in-demand topics. Click HERE to see see a list of his presentation topics! (opens in new window)

Larry Jacobson Author of THE BOY BEHIND THE GATE Julia 2

August 12 2017

Make Passion Your Priority

Larry Jacobson Fear, Passion

Do you need a little inspiration? Is fear stopping you from living your life fully…?

From TEDx talks to corporate meetings, making passion your priority is now Larry Jacobson’s single-most-requested speech.

Larry opens his heart to tell the story of discovering his passion for sailing at the age of 13. Then he jumps right in to the lives of the audience and how important passion is for them, how to find it, and how it can improve the quality of their work and personal lives. Larry waves his tale of passion into the work lives of the audience with great effectiveness using stories and slides from his 6 years of sailing around the world. Humor, emotion, and passion are keys to delivering this keynote and Larry Jacobson has them all.

If you haven’t downloaded Larry’s new Check-List, The Top 5 Retirement Life-Style Planning Secrets, you can do so Here!

If you have any questions about Retirement Life-Style Planning, you can send Larry Jacobson a message – Click HERE!

Larry Jacobson
Your Retirement Life-Style Design Coach

December 19 2016

JCCSF & Buoy Coaching Presents Redefining Retirement

Larry Jacobson Passion, Purpose, Reinvent Your Retirement

In a special appearance
JCCSF and Buoy Coaching present
Larry Jacobson
Redefining Retirement: What’s Your Encore

This Transition Workshop is for you if:

You’re already retired and you’re thinking, “Is this all there is?”
You’re close to retirement and already have plans to sleep in, play golf, and travel.
You’re far from retirement but it has crossed your mind of what you’ll do when you’re not needed at work anymore.
It’s never crossed your mind what you’ll do when you’re not needed at work anymore, but now that you mention it….
You never plan to retire, have always hated the word and you’ve told your friends that it needs redefining.
You know someone who is retired and directionless such as:

~ Your partner/spouse
~ Your parent(s)
~ Your retired neighbor Mrs. Kravitz, who is driving you crazy and clearly needs something to do.
In any of these cases, you should attend and try to get them to attend as well.

You are going through a big transition in your life. Retirement is a transition and you will glean great ideas from this.
You’ve heard about that “Larry guy” and want to see him in action.
You’re just looking for a good time and to learn something new.
You heard there will be wine and cheese and you don’t care what the topic is.

Join award-winning author, speaker, circumnavigator, and sought-after non-financial retirement coach, Larry Jacobson for a rare hands-on workshop to help you determine your life direction in retirement. You have a plan for your finances; do you have a plan for time? What do you, or will you do all day? How will you spend your time? For starters, turn off that TV set!

Based on the award-winning program, Sail Into Retirement, you’ll leave this event looking at retirement not as the end, but as opportunity for a new beginning. And you’ll leave with a plan in hand!

Note: This is NOT a financial planning seminar. For financial advice, call your uncle Marvin or aunt Millie.

San Francisco Jewish Community Center
3200 California St.
San Francisco, CA 94118

FREE to SFJCC members, non-members $25 and it includes wine & cheese so it’s almost free for you too. (What were you expecting, a roasted turkey dinner?)

Parking under the building, nominal fee. Security is very tight at the SFJCC, please be prepared for a search of your vehicle’s trunk as you enter the garage.

RSVP NECESSARY: Otherwise how will we know how much wine? Click here:

SPACE IS LIMITED, LOCK IN YOUR SPACE TODAY!

If you have any questions about Retirement Coaching or Life-Style Planning Coaching, you can send Larry Jacobson a message – Click HERE!

Larry Jacobson
Your Retirement Life-Style Planning Coach

November 12 2016

BABY BOOMERS REJECT AND REDEFINE RETIREMENT

Larry Jacobson AFTER RETIREMENT, New Beginning, Passion, Reinvent Your Retirement

Today’s Retirement Situation—The Hard Truth

A majority of those approaching retirement have not thought about what happens after their career comes to an end because the idea of losing one’s identity is frightening. Many of life’s big transitions are scripted for us and follow an established progression from one stage to the next. In school, we progressed from kindergarten to elementary, from middle to high school and the next step for some was college. In the corporate world, you climb the ladder from supervisor to manager, director, VP, President, and then the C-suite. If you’re in the military, you rise through the ranks in proper order. But now that you are approaching an unscripted part of your life, you have the opportunity to direct what you will do with the rest of your life. Do you have a plan for what you’ll do with your time? Will it provide you with fulfillment and purpose?

Are You Anchored?

Larry Jacobson Passion, Purpose, Reinvent Your Retirement

Proper anchoring is not just for boats — it’s for your life.

Sailing around the world teaches you to have faith in your anchor. Sometimes it was nerve-wracking as to whether or not the anchor would hold, but after learning proper techniques, we knew we could trust the anchor to hold us through the worst of conditions. Having anchors in your life is important. The potential metaphors are endless.

My personal life anchors are mental convictions I can always count on. I confess they don’t hold 100% of the time, but they guide me and keep me from drifting. By sharing my life anchors, I hope to inspire you to establish your personal anchors for Your Unstoppable Life.

1. I can direct my life by the actions I take. I choose where to set the anchor. If I don’t like where I am anchored, I should move.

2. I establish my own values and morals. I establish these anchors based on the information around me and look ahead to changes that might be coming.

3. I have a backup plan. I continually refine my goals and visions. I want them manageable, achievable, and far-reaching.

4. I always strive to improve in character and craft. Digging deep for strength and skill takes practice.

5. I appreciate those around me and strive to let them know it. It’s not necessary to yell at your friends or crew.

6. I enjoy the view and mark the worth of every day.

I hope you’ll find these “anchors” as useful as I found them. I use these almost like guiding principles in my life. Feel free to borrow them.

Larry Jacobson
Your Retirement Life-Style Design Coach

If you haven’t downloaded Larry’s new Check-List, The Top 5 Retirement Life-Style Planning Secrets, you can do so Here!

If you have any questions about Retirement Life-Style Planning, you can send Larry Jacobson a message – Click HERE!

May 17 2016

Passion Quiz

Larry Jacobson buoy, Passion

Find Your Passion and Make it a Priority in Your Life!

Take a moment to take the “Passion Quiz”. These questions are designed to help you clarify what you love, what you are passionate about, and what you want to achieve in your life.

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February 2 2016

Navigating Leadership, Leadership Lessons Learned at Sea

Larry Jacobson Fear, Leadership, Passion

As a leader in sales and marketing for twenty years, and then captaining his own boat around the world, Larry Jacobson speaks with a unique authority and credibility. As a leader and adventurer, he weaves tales of his six-year odyssey circumnavigating the globe with the challenges of leadership in our fast-paced business world.

There are similarities in leading your crew while facing 30-foot walls of water slamming into your boat in a horrific Red Sea storm, and leading in your company. It’s lonely, scary, and it’s easy to want to make it all go away. Making your dream of sailing around the world come true doesn’t happen by luck, but by good leadership and visualizing achievement.

Like sailing around the world, leadership is making decisions, taking risks, maintaining a good attitude, facing fears, staying focused, and digging deep for strength and perseverance.

Larry Jacobson used these same traits and business disciplines to close millions of dollars in business, and to complete his circumnavigation. From high-tech to home products, Larry understands sales cycles and distribution channels, and what it takes to close sales in just about any industry. His keynote is the perfect fit for any sales meeting, conference, or incentive program.

Leadership begins when anyone decides to be their best and Larry challenges each listener to do just that:Achieve Unstoppable Performance in Leadership.

In this keynote that’s the perfect fit for any sales meeting, conference, association, or incentive program, your attendees will learn:

How to feel comfortable taking risks
How to recognize fears and use them to their advantage while in a leadership role
How to make decisions more promptly and effectively
That without dreams, leaders have nothing to lead to
The importance of goal-setting as part of being a leader
That tenacity is a skill best learned from practice
That a leader has to lead all the way to the final conclusion.

Larry Jacobson
Your Retirement Life-Style Design Coach

December 7 2014

Take Funny Things Seriously!

Larry Jacobson Goal Setting, Passion

A serious blog about funny things…

As you go about your day, your senses are bombarded with things such as wacky billboards, terribly named products, or oddly painted cars. You see events such as people engaging with each other, and you see actions such as a driver with road rage or an elderly person being helped across the street. We see lots of good and bad every day. We often notice these things, events, or actions and tell others: “Marge, I saw the strangest thing today…”

But do you notice the funny things, events, or actions? What did you see today that was funny? From giving you a little chuckle, an out loud giggle, or a rolling on the floor with laughter until your side hurt, funny things that make us laugh are wonderful medicine that we rarely stop and take note of — and share. As The Joker said to Batman,”Why soooo serious?”

Laughter IS the best medicine. That’s why my goal of each day is to make at least one person laugh. Whether it’s the banker I call on the phone, or the store clerk when buying groceries, I try my darnedest to make them laugh, often at my own expense by making fun of something I have done. Sometimes I start laughing at myself and then someone sees me laughing and asks what’s so funny, and I say, “Well I’m just laughing at myself. I used to be so decisive. Now I’m not so sure.”

What things, events, or actions did you see or do today that was funny enough to make you stop and notice? I ask because the key to receiving the full dose of laughter medicine is to recognize that you’re laughing. And laughter, like fear, sadness, or depression, is contagious. Laughing and smiling people make others laugh and smile. Be the one who is laughing and smiling.

Joining you in laughter,
Larry

Larry Jacobson
Your Retirement Life-Style Design Coach

If you haven’t downloaded Larry’s new Check-List, The Top 5 Retirement Life-Style Planning Secrets, you can do so Here!

If you have any questions about Retirement Life-Style Planning, you can send Larry Jacobson a message – Click HERE!